Save the family when the relationship is bad? Or is it better not to torment each other and divorce?
I think it would be better to save the relationship. Because it's not human to just stop thinking about your relationship. I'm sure you always have to fight to the last man. And maybe in the future your relationship will move to the next level, and everything will be fine.
It depends on how bad things are in your relationship. Maybe therapy can help, or maybe you just need some time alone. We all have hard times in our lives sometimes and I think you need to read up on what's really going on in your family https://breakupangels.com/5-signs-your-marriage-is-falling-apart/